If you feel like you are 'flooding' pads and you are having to change them often, then you may be bleeding a little too much. It sounds like it will be over soon but I think there is a herb that you can take that will help, Tanya and Inana know what it is. I hope you have a lot of support around you besides your DH, it might help to have someone there who isn't experiencing loss as well kwim? take care