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**diannescruffy** · October 19th, 2012, 10:57 AM

18mths ago my SIL desecrated Emmanuel's grave and she was charged.

Regards,
Dianne

**LysnDan** · October 19th, 2012, 10:58 AM

That's terrible Dianne.

**RhiChiChi** · October 19th, 2012, 11:00 AM

I'm pretty sure it's my SIL again, she was charged 18mths ago for this exact same thing and she's causing trouble with her son who they have disowned. She is such a sick woman but wont seek help. The caretakers were cleaning Emmanuel's headstone so I only saw half of it but it was enough.

Regards,
Dianne

I thought it might have been her again. Again, so sorry hun x

**Jewel** · October 19th, 2012, 11:01 AM

I'm so so sorry. That's horrible.
Massive hugs.

xox

**Footsteps** · October 19th, 2012, 11:10 AM

That's sickening. Iam so so sorry huni. Much love and hugs xxx

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**OceanPrincess** · October 19th, 2012, 11:47 AM

I'm so sorry Dianne! How awful!

**Kazzo** · October 19th, 2012, 11:52 AM

Oh Dianne I am sorry to hear this. I can't believe there are people out there that would do this. It is an extremely low dispicable act.

**~TT40~** · October 19th, 2012, 12:06 PM

oh Dianne =( *massive hugs* that is terrible.

**~ Zarava Flutterby ~** · October 19th, 2012, 12:27 PM

Oh hun i am so so sorry.
My mum was shattered when someone cracked the picture on my brothers grave... i just don't know how anyone could be so low to do these kinds of things.

I hope if it was your SIL she is charged again....

**diannescruffy** · October 20th, 2012, 11:48 AM

I had such an awful day yesterday. For years going to the cemetary was so hard for me but then I found it to be my special place of solace, being with my boy would bring me peace but now I'm scared again. I'm thinking I need somewhere else safe for my baby boy.

Regards,
Dianne

**~ Zarava Flutterby ~** · October 20th, 2012, 11:50 AM

My mum has a garden set up at home, she has statues and flowers that represent my brother & my pop.
She doesn't live near the cemetary anymore so that is her place to go, sit and remember them, talk to them and feel close to them.

Maybe you could setup something at home similar, or buy something that mnakes you think of him in a quiet place.

Just throwing some ideas out there hun, it's sad that you don't feel safe in a sense being there, it should be your place to be with him and no-one should be allowed to ruin that.

**blessedatlast** · October 20th, 2012, 12:33 PM

Dianne, that's so awful! I'm so sad this has happened again

I can't believe someone would do such a thing

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**forshelby** · October 20th, 2012, 01:51 PM

I'm so sorry Dianne. I can't even comprehend how someone could do something like that.

**lilima** · October 20th, 2012, 01:54 PM

Sorry that this has happened again

**AnyDream** · October 20th, 2012, 02:32 PM

Dianne, I'm so sorry that this has happened again. It sounds like the person responsible is very sick and in need of help. Will you be pursuing this with the police?

I was also thinking it might be a good thing for you to create something like a small memory garden or a special place at home.