People still have so far to go in relation to hooking their brains up before they speak!

And if they don't understand, they should remain quiet.

I've dealt with this first hand from losing my son at 22 weeks, and copping comments from the inlaws about when I should get out and work 2 weeks after the birth.

It saddens me further to see I'm not alone with being barraged [sp?] with useless comments.