I didnt say they would love less or not have any affection for thier mother dear, I said its sad they are getting all this attention of someone other than their mother on a daily basis. I think any child would "Prefere" to be with thier mother daily, any child who didnt would have good reason in my eyes. Of course except when they are at a age they understand it all and why mum cant be there, I am talking toddlers and younger. My sister admitts liking work more than being a mummy so I have reason to say that about her. She only had children to keep her man happy, not the way to do it in my eyes, and therefore uses a nanny to escape her duties to her own babies, more money than sense my mother says!

I think nannies are wonderful, otherwise I would not be raising the questions in the first place. But I aslo think if a mother is going to hire a nanny to be there 24/7 then why have the kids just to miss out on them. That is my own opinion. I see nothing wrong with it every so often, but if someone else is to raise the child, then women should wait till they can be there for their children. Maybe that is why women are putting off having kids to a later age, hmmmmmmm now thats a thought!