Thanks, The ambush is what bugs me.
I think she thinks if she tells me infront of others (the older kids) that I wont be able to say anything.(this is the 2nd or 3rd time this has happened)

Sneaky is the word that comes to mind, and I am peeved that she put me in this position, and really sad that she stood us up.

I kind of dont know where to go from here. Thankfully yesterday and next monday are holidays here, so I dont have to worry about it he wouldnt go there anyway.

GRRR, LOL if it was my mum we just would have yelled at each other on prolly told each other to F off and just gotten over it. Damn non blood family!!