Frustrating! How do I deal with this?

[BeautifulMadness]

hmmm,

maybe get him more involved with the baby?


My 4 and half yr old decided yesterday to pee on his pj's while they were on the floor...

I just tell him that he knows not to do that and he is a big boy now....

my Dh on the other hand....he is alot more strict....telling him off,etc

[~Kim~]

hmmm attention is attention whether it be negative or positive.
Would it reinforce the point better to not make a huge deal of the accidents and just remind him that the successes please you far more? Maybe in conjunction with the sticker chart and reminding him how grown up he is compared to bub?