He will get it babe. I know it doesn't feel like it. But like I said, they know how to work us. You give up on something once cause its too much and they remember it. His mentality is if he just a big enough tanti over it then you'll just let him stay in nappies. But in saying that it will be hard and i'd say there'll be a few accidents. And hey if you don't want to bribe him you don't have to. Have you got any toilet training books to help you a little bit?