Chloe, this is a really hard one. I find with Jack (who of course is nearly a year older than Imran), that it varies from day to day. Some days he will use the toilet often, other days he refuses. It is frustrating as he is quite capable of tting, he just doesn't seem to want to. He seems quite content to walk around in wet undies, apparently it's preferable to stopping playing . I like to offer the toilet about 15 mins after a drink, and about half-hourly otherwise. But as I said, some days this will work well, other days he just refuses to use the toilet and asking him often seems to make it worse. I would just take it day by day and play it by ear. GL with it, I think this is the one area where we have the raw end of the deal having boys LOL.