I"ve got the big seat thing for the toilet but Alex just likes to sit on it.

Try not to stress if he's not going on the potty as he will do it when he is ready. I tried so hard when TT Kimberley and in the end she did it all on her own. I think that is the best way to do it is for them to lead you and not try too much with them.

I've not started with Alex yet as he's only just starting to realise when he is going to the toilet. I got something from the CYN and it said anything from 2.5 till 4 for TTing and most kids are not trained at night and still wet until they are 8.