So you've achieved what you've done so far with DS without professional support?! Holy moly woman, I knew you were doing well but that's incredible!!! Massive, massive kudos to you, superMum, you have two very blessed little people there.

As for DD...? Well, I still don't know. The app sounds like a great idea and will help test the behaviour theory. If she's really motivated and still wetting then it's even safer to say that it's beyond her control. But I maintain that you deserve a thorough, respectful, professional assessment. Sounds like those are somewhat rare in your neck of the woods. Only thing else I've got it hugs. xoxoxo