Hi everyone,

I've been tt'ing my 3 1/2 year old for a full year! He's great at childcare (3 long days a week), in undies all day with no accidents and he's great when we go out but at home he still has random accidents. Just now I'd been asking him all day "Do you want to go to the toilet? You havent done a wee all day." and not 2 minutes after I last asked he just started weeing on the floor as I was speaking with him. I am beyond it. Every accident he tells me "Oh Sorry Mum. I'll try harder next time." and he smiles at me. He couldn't care less if he has wet or pooey undies. I've been doing the super patient, nice and stressless thing for so long. But now I want to scream and I wonder if maybe I should be punishing him for it?

Treats don't work, sticker charts don't work, all manner of bribes don't work, I've done everything the books reccommend. I am 6 months pregnant and DS starts kindy in a few weeks. I just can't handle this any longer and I don't know what to do. In truth I am not really expecting any solutions, I honestly believe we've tried everything (except punishment, and I am almost ready to try that now!!). I just need the vent

Anyone else finding this the hardest parenting challenge yet?