Mackenzie is the same - tells me when she is doing wee/poo but isn't quite there yet. We have a potty just sitting around and she pulls down her pants, we then proceed to take the nappy off and she sits there for about 5 seconds then runs away. I also got one of the climbing ladder potty things for the big toilet (just today actually) and told her I had a present for her when she woke up form her afternoon sleep. She was very excited, sat on it and was only interested in seeing how much toilet paper she could jam in the bowl! I've put training pants on her (the old terry towelling ones) and she holds on (I tried this in summer too she would hold on for an hour) and then as soon as I put a nappy back on she wees and wees. So I abandoned this because I didn't think it was good to hold on if she really needed to go. I guess they will let me know when they are ready but I will try again when it gets warmer if it hasn't happened. Like Jacob, she understands what she is doing but just isn't interested in toilet training just yet. I left the potty sitting around from our failed attempt in Jan/Feb becuase I didn't want her thinking she had failed - IYKWIM? Fun isn't it!