I need a pep talk. (on my phone so excuse spelling)

Dd has been in undies for a few weeks now, even waking dry overnight, but we still have nappies on her jic.

Anyway the last few days have been a big regression. She has done two poos in her pants today alone and several sees over the last three days (one poo and wee in public!)

I tend to pre-empt her toileting by taking her to the toilet wherever we go and before we leave the house etc, but now I realize she isn't actually recognizing the need to go to the toilet, and so will only tell me once she's already started.

Today I lost it. Twice. After a poo AND separate wee accident at home, we had another poo accident out. Despite her just having used the loo. *sigh* I actually cried I felt so bad...I know you're not meant to get cross but three changes of clothes (and shoes) before midday is too much. I just want to stop, but I am worried all my hard work will be undone.

I feel she is ready...but the sudden regression makes me despondent. She is sick...could it be that?

I need some reassurance!!?!