i am a family daycare carer and i have a little boy that i look after he is 3.5 and still isnt toilet trained. he has absolutly no idea wats going on. he can tell me when he has done a wee or poo in his nappy but today i sat him on the toilet and told him he wasnt hopping off till he did a wee or a poo. i asked if he did a poo an dhe said yes when clearly he didnt.

i have got him to do a wee on the toilet a few times but it is usually like 2 drops then as soon as the nappy goes on he does the rest in the nappy. his mother couldnt just doesnt seem to care he isnt toilet trained everytime i mention it to her she says she doesnt wanna put up with him weeing on the floor or maing a mess, like i do.

should i even bother keep tryin if she isnt goign to do it at home?
it is just now that i am preg i am finding it hard changing him nappy on the change table. i am not ment to do it on the floor cause of our policies.