Thanks loula and Olive you have taken me to my next query about wiping bottoms and long day child care.
He had just gone from a 2-3 yr old room to the 3-6 yr olds. He had to be TT as in had to be in undies with no accidents. Through the day he is fine. In the younger room his carer would help him to wipe his bottom but the carers in the older room keep telling him he needs to do it. Now the problem is that he has come home with poo on his bottom and it is redder then normal from having poo on there. He has also said that he pokes holes in the toilet paper and that means if he has poo on his fingers and doesn't wash his hands properly (cause they also don't really help with that) that he could be spreading poo around

what do you think ladies? Should I be speaking to the director?