congratulations on the birth of your son! what is his name?
i agree with what Odette said that if you can possibly get there at night if your dh is home with your daughter the atmosphere is a little more relaxed in the hospital. The nurses dont have as many parents etc coming in and out and may be able to give you lots of advise and tell you just what is happening with your baby and explain it fully so you understand.
If you go home not understanding what they are doing to him or what they have told you, you will probably find yourself more upset.
I hope your little boy continues to do well through his early stages of life and please update us on how he is doing.
There are lots of premmie mums here on BB with some great advise and general support so please feel free to ask lots of questions or even just vent about how you are feeling.
There is another great premmie support forum called "Lil Aussie prems" which you can log onto and share your expericences with other parents of prems.
Hang in there, and yes, remember you do have access to your baby 24 hours. You can visit him at any time night or day. You can also call and ask how he is anytime of the night or day. A quick call to know that he is doing well will put your mind at ease and let you get some rest.
Also have you been in contact with your social worker? They are there to help you with anything you need. They will help you with accommodation for you and your family at little to no cost, so you can be closer to your son. They are also great to just chat to as well.
Take in some of his teddy's if you have not already and definatley do kangaroo cares as often as you can. This really does make the world of difference,like regulating their heart rate amongst many other wonderful things.
Look after yourself as much as you can too, I wish you all the best.
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