Hi Kyla,

congratulations on the birth of your son! what is his name?
i agree with what Odette said that if you can possibly get there at night if your dh is home with your daughter the atmosphere is a little more relaxed in the hospital. The nurses dont have as many parents etc coming in and out and may be able to give you lots of advise and tell you just what is happening with your baby and explain it fully so you understand.
If you go home not understanding what they are doing to him or what they have told you, you will probably find yourself more upset.
I hope your little boy continues to do well through his early stages of life and please update us on how he is doing.
There are lots of premmie mums here on BB with some great advise and general support so please feel free to ask lots of questions or even just vent about how you are feeling.
There is another great premmie support forum called "Lil Aussie prems" which you can log onto and share your expericences with other parents of prems.