hi there jussy
just wanted to let you know that you are not alone, and please dont ever feel that you are. I have twins that were born at 31 weeks, so i sorta know a bit what you are going through.

It is hard enough having twins, let alone premmie twins. Sometimes i felt that people that had just one baby to look after didn't understand, and people that had full termers didn't realise how lucky they were.

my godsend was the local multiple birth assoiciation where I could talk, *****, while or vent with them who had premmies and twins. The only people I felt that i could relate to.
I used to take the kids to playgroup most weeks, even though they were still in the pram, and little babies - not for their sake, but for my sanity.

If you can't get out, forums like this are a help, or otherwise the new families contact in your multiple birth group may be able to hook you up with someone near who has been there and done that, or even with twins that are around the same age as your.

If you would like to email me, please feel free to odette_oz@yahoo.com.au
otherwise I will keep an eye out if you want to reply in the forum
take care of yourself. . . .
odette
mum to Ariel and Immogen
5/12/2002