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It's hard not to feel bad when there are sicker babies, our scn was combined with the nicu, so some of the babies were really sick. All three of mine were scn babies in the end including Ds who was a full term baby. He was so big compared to all the other babies, it seemed strange having him there. But all the babies are there for a reason.
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Ohhh massive massive hugs yarra!!!
Congrats on ur special lil girl I'm sure she is absolutely beautiful!!
Hun don't feel guilty or useless u are doing n will always do wats right by ur lil girl cause u r her mum!! n that is something no nurse or dr will ever be able to fulfill.. They do the medical side but u r doing wat u can for now but it mite not seem like much but just that milk is the best job u could hav rite now..
N ur feelings are totally understandable
My ds2 was in scn for 2 month at birth n he was ful term his lung collapsed n his blood started clotting out of no where n he was a big healthy bubs being 17 I felt like the biggest failure n was always crying too it's hard to watch n see n hav to walk away
Ull get through this in time but u will feel better soon xox
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