Thanks girls.

Sally I am now 27 weeks. I read that the risk doubles for a second abruption but it is so low to begin with. They scanned the blood vessels going in and out of the placenta and they are good and healthy so that felt good.

I think one of my biggest stresses at the moment is how to stop breastfeeding my 20 month old to sleep as that is going to be a bit tricky with a newborn!!!

Melssy I agree I think it is a hard thing when they do not know why we our babies come early. If you have more children hopefully you will get lots of support. I am public and getting lots of great support for both the emotional and physical side of things. It helped that I cried a lot at my first appt with this bub though. I have had two different opinions of what caused the bleeding and I have settled on the one that gets the most votes and was told at the time LOL. But it is still not reassuring enough. The other for me was that I had placenta praevia, but I do not have it this time so that is a relief.

Enjoy your precious little bundle. I am so looking forward to a new little squishy to hold.