She isn't 35 weeks anymore, she is 36+3 and I just got home from yet another NGT feed. I'm seeing premmie twins younger and lighter than her absolutely scoff down a bottle. Just doesn't make sense . And we only have one car and our brakes are failing... I have no idea how to get to hospital, it's a 40 minute walk each way so I guess that's what it will have to be if we can't get it fixed quickly.
Hugs. Had similar when DS2 was in hospital. There was a 31 weeker that suck fed more often than my 33+ weeker.

As for telling them you want to try suck feeding for each feed- go for it! I did with DS2. I stole the comfy chairs and parked it next to his crib. I was there all day most days.
It's harder if you need someone to take care of a toddler/older child (DS2 is my 3rd bub, so I had a 6yo and a 4yo as well)

Even at 36+3 she still isn't quite term yet.