Hear Hear Nadine, I understand where you are coming from.
Now I know that 37/38 weeks is classed as term but after you go through the problems that I went through, plus they were in SCN. My first SCN baby turns 9 this year, and in Grade 4 and is growing up so much. My second SCN baby has just turned 7 , in Grade 2 and has the biggest attitude problem out. My third NICU/SCN baby is turning 3 and even though she has a long way to go, she is showing me that she can overcome the problems that life has dealt her, Patrick my last SCN baby is now 20 months old and becoming a little person. He still is a baby in some ways though. He refuses to sleep anywhere but with his mummy, loves his cuddles and falls asleep in my arms. Yet he will run around and take the bumps from his brothers and sisters with a smile.
Your little girl may be growing up but she will always be your little baby, she is just showing you that she can be a big girl but she will always need her mummy!.