hi beansbeans,

ur SIL is very lucky that her baby is passed the gestation where survival could have been minimal, so there's a postive right there!

i think the fuel vouchers is a fabulous idea. and even tho u may not understand what she is going through, offering her ur support will be priceless.

something my mum did for me while my son was in hospital, was she paid for me to get my hair coloured. i felt very guilty for not being by my sons side, but it also gave me a much needed pick me up! so manybe something that will pamper her for an hour or 2 and make her feel like a person again

wish her all the best and congrats on becoming an aunty! xox