Ladies,

I thought I'd come in here and ask as you ladies will have been through it and might know what would be appreciated.

Family friends wife has just given birth to twins at 28wks and they have been transferred out of their home base to the nearest major hospital with facilities (which is same town as where I live).

At this stage mums and both bubs are doing ok, dad is staying in emerg hospital accom and his parents are staying with family.

Just wondering what would be appropriate as gift/help???

Are frozen meals appropriate (not knowing what type of food they eat)??
Are normal baby gifts appropriate at this stage or is it better to wait until out of hossy??
Given I'm also very heavily pregnant is visiting likely to be traumatic (given also I haven't seen the dad since I was 14), especially if things don't go so well ??

The grandparents have my contact details and I will leave in their court to contact as first point of call - just want to know what would be wanted or needed most over the next few weeks (especially once grandparents have to leave and mum and dad remain)

TIA