Hello Jaspen,

Definately celebrate the babies birth, a card and even a small outfit, I also second the handcream for mum! A definate must!!

Also even offer to be there for them, just to have someone to talk to is a huge help. Ask how the babies are going and focus on the positives, also make comments on how they have gorgeous names and if you've seen them (or pics) how cute they are, ect. The biggest thing for me was that people stayed away, I ended up feeling like I had some disease or something. Even if you could send her a txt, so that she knows you are thinking of them all.

I hope they have a smooth sail through the NICU. All the best with your pregnancy too.