I use QV bath oil and sorbolene as a moisterizer if i see DD is getting dry skin.

A midwife once told me that the only reason that J&J can mae the claim that their products are used by 90 somkething % of hospitals is because they give it to them for free! Even midwives hate the stuff!

Maybe just start with water and get some samples of different washes to work out what works best for you.