I bought a b/f pillow last week, a Milk Bar one for twins (it wraps around boths your sides and does up at the back). I agree they are exxy, but if I am going to try and feed the twins at the same time I will really need the pillow for assistance. I can then use it when they are older and taking bottles for them to feed themselves. For DD I just have a cheaper type of wrap around pillow, but she wouldn't b/f but it still came in handy as extra support when I was feeding her a bottle. Now she uses the pillow herself to have her morning and evening bottle.