Thanks girls for the laugh, well and truelly needed!!!!
I have to say we have been very fortunate, maybe because this baby is number 4 and people have left us alone this time with their genourous gestures (but clothes are more than welcome, feels a bit like Christmas for me, when I start looking through bags of clothes)
Good luck and some very good advice there, wish i could recall it when needed, I am not a tactfull as some.