I say go all out too. I got everything matching for DD#1. When I found out I was expecting another girl I had the same feelings as you - no point buying clothes etc because DD#1's would be fine for #2. Hasn't worked that way - DD#2 has the same ridiculous amount of clothing that she will never wear out and her own beautiful nursery. I think each child deserves to be made a fuss of and have lovely things of their own, whether they are the same sex as their older sibling or not (and whether they know it or not!)
DO IT!!! I have the same point with DH. This is my last bub and I want to do it how I always imagined it. we have spent a bit more already, on things like a travel system (I always wanted a capsule) and our change table (absolutely perfect, it fits all our nappies and nappy accessories in it). We are still discussing which room will be the baby's room.
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