Our first was a boy and second a girl so mostly we just bought clothes.
When DS2 came along I had lent a heap of DS1 baby clothes out to a friend and some never came back (plus they were different seasons) So had to buy more boys stuff.
With each baby I've bough a special outfit just for them to come home from hospital.
Replaced worn and stained wraps and chuck rags.
With DS3 we bought a new pram (with tddler seat) as our old one was well used (and the dog chewed on part of the newborn insert cushion)
and the capsule that matches.
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