thread: What do you NEED for your second bub?

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  1. #1
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    Dec 2007
    Sunny Qld
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    Oh yeah and I didn't need a new cot either - I got a cheap bassinette off Ebay for $50 before Eden was born, and she was in that for a few months - Kelti had already moved to a toddler bed before Eden was born though, about 15 months old she was. Kelti slept in the bassinette I borrowed from my SIL when she was born until DS was 22 months old and moved into a toddler bed. So I've only purchased toddler beds, not another cot

  2. #2
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    May 2007
    Newcastle NSW
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    Besides what everyone else has said - car seat, double pram, more towels, carrier etc i bought an electronic breast pump. Mainly cause with ds i found it took forever for me to be able to express enough for a bottle if i had to leave him and i'm sure i'll have less time now and i'll probaly be going back to work earlier so it will be more efficient. Also if i have to express again with this one for comp feeds in the early days it will help too

  3. #3
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    Jun 2005
    USA
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    We're planning on getting:
    Car seat- a booster seat for our son actually and the convertible car seat will be passed down.
    Cradle- older son is still in cot, not as a toddler bed so I'm hoping the larger size of a cradle will last us a little longer with baby#2 until the cot is free.
    Skateboard for pram- I'll mainly use carriers for the baby too but I think the skateboard will be handy for a long time anyway.
    Cleaner- I figure this will be an essential for a period of time while adjusting to having two!
    Bath seat- We didn't use one last time but I think it'll make life easier with two in the bath. Obviously wont need that for a bit though.

    We have a rocker already which we barely used last time but I can see it being handy this time.

  4. #4
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    Apr 2010
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    We got (for #3, since I needed to start from scratch for #2)

    A bassinet + some sheets and blankets (which I got gifted)
    Some clothes - despite them being polar opposite seasons, I had quite a bit of neutral coloured wintery stuff in between all the pink summer stuff
    Nappies
    Car seat (which just happened to come with quite a few bassinet sized sheets and blankets)
    And out of season maternity gear for me

    The whole lot added up to about $250. Second babies are cheap!

    If I'd had two of the same gender in similar seasons I would have only needed cot and carseat.

  5. #5
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    Mar 2008
    North Northcote
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    newborn clothes as we gave alot away

    carseat for DD1

    big bed for DD1

    double pram

    night light...lost the last one somewhere along the way

    newborn size socks...lost many of the pairs so had a lot of singletons floating around.

  6. #6
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    Nov 2009
    In Paradise
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    Just

  7. #7
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    Aug 2006
    On the other side of this screen!!!
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    Hehehe anything you wanted the first time round but couldn't afford LOL.

    Naw only joking, it works the other way round, you realise with your first how little you actually do "need". But on the other hand you've got a better idea of what things are really useful.

    Things I lashed out on with DD2:
    a boori matilda cradle (much bigger than a basinette, kept her in it until she was big enough to go into a different room)
    a shaped denton's preggy pillow & a breastfeeding pillow (made do with a sad & saggy u-shaped pillow first time)
    a really good sling (had a cheap n nasty first time)
    a new monitor (cos the first one died after a couple of years constant use)
    an inflatable ducky bath (sits inside your regular bath, really handy for bathing little ones without filling the whole bath)
    playpen (didn't need it with DD1 but it was brilliant with DD2)

  8. #8
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    Jul 2009
    Ormeau
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    Things we've got or are planning to get:

    Second hand and new baby clothes as we're having a girl and 8 bags of boys stuff just won't do lol
    Couple of sets of new sheets.
    Another car seat as DS is still in his.
    Pram the will fit both of them. Note for anyone looking into this- I hated the idea of big chunky double pram but have found an amazing one called the Bootiq Duex stroller, very lightweight and folds up to size of single pram, plus comes with newborn foot muff, head support and storm cover and is really cheap!
    Couple of new blankets etc as some of DS ones were worn out or stained.
    2 extra baby gates second hand for $5 each as I know it will be harder to keep an eye on 2!

    That's about it that we have 'needed' have bought some other stuff like a nursery manchester set worth $370 for $50 and some pretty girly teddy bears etc