hey hun

you said you used contraception, i don't want to intrude but what did you use/ or are using?? condoms, pill, withdraw method??
without knowing what you actually using for saftey i would just do a HPT just incase, plus it would stop all the wondering if you are or arent pregnant.

if your HPT comes up neg, then wait a few more days and if she still hasnt shown up, i would make a quick trip to your doc to see what they think might be going on.

hope you get some answers soon, i know its so hard being in limbo land!

please let us know how you go

xx