Thanks guys.
well i just did another opk now and the 2nd line came up dark straight away. so i guess O is on its way! my temp dropped down to 35.8 thismorning also.

anyway we prob wont DTD again as i didnt really want to fall pg this month but considering we DTD New years morning there could be a slight chance.
i also want to ttc for a girl this time which i have been reading to stop DTD days before O then each month conception doesnt happen to creep it one day closer.