Georgette,

Sounds like a very stressful situation - I'm not sure if i can help you with the FMU question, I would assume that with FMU it wouldn't make too much of a difference holding bladder, only cause you have been holding on all night anyway. I'm more concerned that you are 14 days late and the Dr wont approve a BT! I know of some ladies on here that continued to get BFNs whilst they were preg - it just depends on the hormorne levels. Do you know when you O'd? Is it possible for you to go to another Dr and push for a BT?