Thanks for your vibes min- I hope so too! Yes DH is with the AFP & o/s for a 2-yr term. Comes back every 4 mths for a 1-mth break. We know the timing isn't ideal but the m/c kind of changed things for us. I'm seeing OB tomorrow & enquiring about IUI for us. Might help to make use of the months when DH is away rather than have the pressure in that 1-mth window of opportunity.
Good luck to you & #2!