I can't give you any advice because I think you're already doing a better job than anything I could suggest. All I have to say is to do what feels right. If you need to cry, cry. (I am, right now!) If you find yourself laughing, well, laugh for as long as it feels good (and don't feel guilty. Feel strong)
Just because he's not physically by your side won't change your ability to be a great parent. It will just change the way you do it a little bit.
I really admire you for embracing the concept of finding your new normal. I think that's a great step to take.
I really dont have the words to help you, have you contact with cougar on our boards? she lost her husband last year and she may be able to help you in ways people who havent gone though what you have can
I wish there was something more we could do, it's not fair that your DH was taken from you and your children, but I'm sure he is watching over you and will give you the strength you need to make it through. Just take it day by day and give yourself as much as you need.
You know we are all here for you on BB whenever you need us. xxx
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