God i could go on here is another example we brought E a DS with games and she is not allowed to take the things from our house home with her otherwise they will never come back anyway her mum say oh i will get you one when i go to bali ( yep she goes on holiday and dumps E with her mum) anyway she comes back and says they were not on sale so i will get you one for your BDay when her Bday comes it was oh i couldnt get one in the colour you want (bullsh#t) so it's wait until xmas then xmass comes and E comes to our house and i said did you get you DS from your mum and E says mum cant find it she brought it and when we moved house it got packed away so she cant find it and i have to wait until she unpacks everything OMG! you have got to be kidding so anyway when the new DSI came in her mum got a 2nd hand old DS for her with no games so the next birthday she promises E some games but again they are packed away when they moved and she couldnt find them it took 4 months before E got some 2nd hand baby sh#tty games for the DS she had sitting in her room.
NOW! if she had 6 kids and was single on the pension i would give her some slack but she works full time and goes away with her boyfriends (yes boyfriends not 1 but 3) all the time and E is getting bare essentials and sales only and $1.90 shampoo which has to last a month and is an only child should i go on i could be here all day.