Parenting After Miscarriage or Loss - January 2010

[Willow]

Mako - Oi you, stop that immediately. It's not 'sh*t' at all!! All of what you are feeling is very normal, very valid and very sucky I wish I could make it better

Kelly -

Michelle - I hope your dad will be OK and his surgery isn't too painful

I am around but not in a good headspace and not knowing what to say to all of you that are having such a rough time

[Spring Angel]

Kelly: You are an amazing friend to put yourself in that situation. I'm sorry your friends don't 'get it'. I hope they realise how lucky they are to have a friend like you.

Michelle: Far out babe, time for some good luck to come your way. Sorry to hear about your Dad but by the sounds of it you've got it sorted. Hope all goes will with the surgery.

Mako: Listen here woman 'spring says in her stern voice' your s*hit is just as important as anyone elses. No matter if it's been 4 weeks or 4 years it still bloody hurts so please don't feel you need to censor your emotions. Sorry to hear about DH. Been in a similar situation before. Men don't seem to realise it's the lie that hurts the most. Hope you guys can talk through it and sort it out.

Willow: Sounds like you could do with a also.

Big big love to all of you.

Spring xx

[BekZ]

I am around but not in a good headspace and not knowing what to say to all of you that are having such a rough time

Yep I feel the same way atm hun. I can't explain what is happening to me but I am on the verge of tears most days lately.

Mako - I am giving FB a big miss lately because I find myself getting angry with my SIL and her perfect life and stupid comments. I really can't be bothered atm.

Just letting everyone know that I am thinking of you all and praying like crazy that the universe smiles nicely on our little thread.

[Lee]

Hi my lovelies...........

Dropping in to have a check on you all - and feel the same way as Bek and Willow - but at least we know we are all still here, even if no valuable words of wisdom are forthcoming, it doesn't matter really.

Michelle, Janie, Kelly, Mako - how are you girls? Been thinking of you, hugs xoxoxo

Bek - I know what you mean about FB - I really love some things about it - i.e. it helps me keep in touch with very special people in my life - but it also gives me the irrits, do I really want to know that my brother (gay bro) woke up with bruises in out of the way places ... probably not!

Having said that - I just posted some recent pictures of my wee Flynn and all my 4 babies at Christmas time - I don't have you all in my "Friends" - if you want to check out my little clan, happy for you to pm me.

Hope you are all finding some peace over the weekend. I've actually caught up on some sleep - my god that helps - I have been teary and emotional for what seems an eternity, but sleep is such an imortant mood lifter.

Bun - are you home yet with that gorgeous little man - and when will we see some piccies?

Love to all,

Lee xoxo

[~Jayne~]

LEE _ I can't find you on facebook! I know we were 'friends' but now you are gone? :-(

BEK _ oh no Chook, what's happening? I hate hearing you are close to tears all the time? Do you feel like telling me what's happening? I'm always hear to listen?

Had a great time at the movies today, then took the girls to a salon to have their toe nails painted - think I may have started something with that one. Oh well!

[Laney]

Hi Ladies

I have been following this thread for a while now. I really haven't known what to say to everyone that has been having such a difficult time. I only know a couple of people in here from previous forums. I just wanted to send out a really big

Lee- i am going to PM you. I would love to see some pictures of your growing family.

[JCE0810]

Hey ladies sorry i'm just lurking at the moment, like a few others i also dont know what to say

but wanting to send lots of &

[Freya]

ugh Ds1 has the dreaded chicken pox *sigh*