thread: Parenting after Miscarriage or Loss ~ December 09

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Dec 2005
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    Mako - thinking of you and praying that bub hangs in there. Must have been horribly scary.

    Cyclone Samuel has struck the lounge room - must run. I can't believe he will be one in only two more days!

    BW

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    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2006
    Perth
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    Mako - how scary, but it sounds like all is going very well after the scan. Sooo many women bleed during their pregnancies and all turns out fine hun, so keep holding onto that thought! Make sure you do take it easy over the next few days too. I hope Sage will be ok at your Mum's, try not to worry about him, who knows, he may be just fine!

    Deb - big big sweetie, you really shouldn't be going through all this. I wish there was something I could do for you. I know that you will have a lovely Christmas despite all of this because you will have all your beautiful children with you. They will make it a special day no matter what else is happening sweetie, just focus on them. I think you are an amazingly strong woman and you will get through this.

    Spring - how are you going?

    BW - wow, I can hardly believe Sam is almost one either, that has gone way too quickly!

    megsmum - hi and welcome to the thread! It's great to have you here!

    Bek - good to see you pop in, You must be sooo busy with your three gorgeous girls!

    Lee - love the pic of Flynn! I have PMed you for facebook so I can see some more!

    Sorry, I am a little behind where everyone is at and don't have time to go back and read up on the last thread again, I promise that I did read it, just with my pregnancy brain I can't remember it all! I have had a shocking few days. After thinking DD was sick on the weekend because of drinking the dog's water, it turns out that she must have actually had a bug, as DH caught it two days later. Then, two days after that and feeling exhausted from looking after them, I went and got it! Was sick as a dog yesterday plus had tilers in the house all day which really didn't help, and then the illness brought on the WORST BHs last night. I seriously thought I was going into labour, had the hossy ph no out and everything! I had to rock through them, have a long shower, take pain killers, and eventually they went away and I had a little sleep last night. Feeling a lot better today but utterly exhausted. I have no one to help out with DD at the last minute here but thankfully she was a good little girl all day. I am really looking forward to having a spew free house now!

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jan 2006
    Sydney
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    Mako - big hugs hun I empathise with the bleeding etc. You know where I am if you need to chat.

    Deb - sending you big squishy hugs too I know there are no answers but knowledge is power. Early intervention with that knowledge is critical - but you already know that

    Sorry girls - it has been one of those days here too.

    DH crashed the car on the way home from work and it is probably written off. Thankfully he is ok but it is a headache to get sorted at this time of year. Stubborn man he is, we are sitting here at home and I am monitoring him closely. Brought down power lines, set off the airbag, caught on fire I get to see the end result in the morning.

    AFM - cramping pain and a sanity scan on a crud machine that didn't reassure me at all leaves me anxious and worried and prepared to be outed at work to do another one before Christmas. I just don't want to tell everyone when I go home without being sure things are still progressing Hoping the extra cramping is related to the phone call from DH telling me he had crashed but feeling sooooooooo fragile I hate this stage.

    BBL when I am less of a misery guts .........

  4. #4
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    Oct 2006
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    Michelle: Poor DH, that sounds like a pretty bad crash. I am so so happy to hear he is ok. You are right, sorting out the car will be a hassle but it is so good that DH is ok. Tough cookie he must be. Get the scan hun, if it will put your mind at ease I think it is best. I hope you and DH are feeling better tomorrow.

    Mako: babe. I've BTDT and it isn't fun. I hope and pray bub is sticky and this is just a terrible scare.

    Bun: I just shudder when I hear about gastro doing the rounds, it is terrible terrible terrible. Hope you and the family are over the worst of it.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Logan
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    Bun - Rest up hun you sound like you need after the gastro bug. My girls are keeping me very busy atm.

    Michelle - I am so glad to hear that your DH is ok. PIA abou the car but at least you man is ok. Go and have the scan so that you can enjoy Christmas.

    Mako - Wow you don't need this stress. I have everything crossed for you.

    Hugs to all. I am off to fold a mountain of washing.

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
    3,715

    Oh man, what a time we're having in here my loves

    It is too late for my brain to function well enough for personals, but I am seriously thinking of all of you with stresses tonight . I went late night shopping with DS, which was nice, got heaps done, but thought I was going into labour by the end of it so I'd better get myself to bed I think! I'm sure I'm not in labour, or close, but will probably be a panic merchant this time around .

    Nighty night all xoxo

    PS Spring, sending you extra strong STAY PREGNANT VIBES!

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Sep 2006
    1,223

    Michelle sending you a great big hun. I hope your DH is ok after his crash. Hope it wasn't your new car but if it was then maybe you'll end up with the silver that you originally wanted
    Also get that scan done before you go away to help ease your mind. This stage of pregnancy sucks I reckon.

    Bun Sending all the get well vibes I can to your house. Gastro is the pits

    Janie Well done on going late night shopping last night. DH and I went out for an hour too and picked up what we were after. Couldn't believe that the shops were staying open to midnight last night.

    Spring How are you feeling?

    Willow Thanks for your text yesterday. Know that I'm thinking of you too. You know where I am if you need anything.

  8. #8
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2007
    Belmont, Newcastle
    316

    Mako - oh no hun. How scary for you guys, im keeping everything crossed that bubs is sticking. I told you how they said i lost ethan, and it was a very heavy bleed then So im hoping you have a checky baby and thats all it is sweety.

    morning girls, well what a day i had yesterday I go to the sleep apneia doctor. This stupid man the asks me "so what brings you here today" grrrr he had the referal right there in front of him. So i then had to explain what happened to Lilli. After that i then had to go and do a resusation course Well they could have told me earlier. On the bed is this little baby doll that i have to give CPR to. First the lady says "now imagine you walk into the room and your child is not breathing" umm well hello i don't need to imagine ive been there. Then she asks, what would be the first thing i do. I tolg her i shock Lilli and then the tears started, it was one very emtional day.

    Hope you all have a better day today, ill bbl for more personals.