thread: Parenting after Miscarriage or Loss ~ December 09

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  1. #1
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    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
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    Oh man, what a time we're having in here my loves

    It is too late for my brain to function well enough for personals, but I am seriously thinking of all of you with stresses tonight . I went late night shopping with DS, which was nice, got heaps done, but thought I was going into labour by the end of it so I'd better get myself to bed I think! I'm sure I'm not in labour, or close, but will probably be a panic merchant this time around .

    Nighty night all xoxo

    PS Spring, sending you extra strong STAY PREGNANT VIBES!

  2. #2
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    Sep 2006
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    Michelle sending you a great big hun. I hope your DH is ok after his crash. Hope it wasn't your new car but if it was then maybe you'll end up with the silver that you originally wanted
    Also get that scan done before you go away to help ease your mind. This stage of pregnancy sucks I reckon.

    Bun Sending all the get well vibes I can to your house. Gastro is the pits

    Janie Well done on going late night shopping last night. DH and I went out for an hour too and picked up what we were after. Couldn't believe that the shops were staying open to midnight last night.

    Spring How are you feeling?

    Willow Thanks for your text yesterday. Know that I'm thinking of you too. You know where I am if you need anything.

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2007
    Belmont, Newcastle
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    Mako - oh no hun. How scary for you guys, im keeping everything crossed that bubs is sticking. I told you how they said i lost ethan, and it was a very heavy bleed then So im hoping you have a checky baby and thats all it is sweety.

    morning girls, well what a day i had yesterday I go to the sleep apneia doctor. This stupid man the asks me "so what brings you here today" grrrr he had the referal right there in front of him. So i then had to explain what happened to Lilli. After that i then had to go and do a resusation course Well they could have told me earlier. On the bed is this little baby doll that i have to give CPR to. First the lady says "now imagine you walk into the room and your child is not breathing" umm well hello i don't need to imagine ive been there. Then she asks, what would be the first thing i do. I tolg her i shock Lilli and then the tears started, it was one very emtional day.

    Hope you all have a better day today, ill bbl for more personals.

  4. #4
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    Oct 2006
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    Rach: I am fuming mad on your behalf. How dare they not take the time to read your referral and to treat you with some sensitivity. You must be a very calm woman because I would have clocked them one. I'm so sorry you had to go through that hun, you are so strong and I admire that so much. But grrrr to the stupid sleep people you came across yesterday.

    Mako: Hopeing you had an uneventful night babe.

    Michelle: How is DH this morning? Sore no doubt but I hope that he is ok.

    Janie: Hope you got a good nights sleep. I'm the captain of the panic merchant ship, welcome aboard (lol)

    Well thankfully bub decided to stay put overnight. Phew. DH is due back in a few hours and I have a CTG this morning so crisis averted.

    Spring xx

  5. #5
    BellyBelly Member

    Aug 2006
    Melbourne
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    I think we need some massive big group hugs in here

    Rach - wow.. I can't believe they put you through all that.. what a day for you. I don't know if I would of coped and am amazed at how strong you sound. You are an inspiration. I can't imagine how tough it's all been for you.

    Mako - how are you feeling this morning hon?? I hope the bleeding has eased and you're feeling ok. I'm praying you've got a really sticky bub in there.

    Janie - Don't you dare even joke about going into labour yet!!! It's WAY too early for that young lady! Glad you got the shopping done!

    Bek - hope you got all the washing folded.. I HATE folding washing with a passion.. don't mind doing the washing and hanging it out but hate folding and putting it all away for some reason!!

    Michelle - OMG.. I'm so glad your DH is ok, what a shock! Hope you're feeling ok too.. definitely go have the scan so you can at least relax a tiny bit more over Chrissy. Early pg is just the WORST!!

    Bun - you poor thing.. it's just the worst when the germs slowly spread through the whole house. Hope you're all feeling heaps better today!

    BW - Hope Sam has a wonderful 1st birthday tomorrow.. how exciting!

    Lee - Sounds like everything is going so well with you guys.. what a great Christmas you should have!

    Megsmum - Welcome and sorry to hear of your loss. It's a brilliant group of girls in here and it's wonderful to have you join us.

    Lisa - Hope you're enjoying your holiday.. when are you back?

    Big hello to everyone else and hope all is well.

    AFM - As much as I love Christmas and New Years... I'm afraid I'm just hanging out for it to all be over so I can head back to Perth for a couple of weeks and see everyone!! I'm really missing home so much atm and especially missing my mum. We're flying out on January 9.. so all I can say is 'bring it on'!!

    Hope things improve for everyone in here... it's been a bit of a rough ride lately!

    Take care and love to you all...

    Kel xxx

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    Sep 2006
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    Rach I'm so bloody angry those stupid insensitive Drs put you through that yesterday. Was that at JHH? The least they should have done was read the referral and the person at the CPR should have chosen their words so much better too. You are such a strong and inspirational woman and friend I so wish you didn't have to go through that. On a side note how did Miss E go with her sleep study?

    Kelly Have you tested yet????? Your trip back to Perth sounds exactly what you need atm. I hope you have a wonderful time.

    Spring All the best with your appt today and WOOHOO on your DH coming home today too.

    Just had a phone call from my mum and she said Sage slept all night although he got upset when he woke up cos he was calling out for me. I really do wonder sometimes how were survived as kids as she told me he had some grapes and a bite of vegemite toast and 2 pieces of nutri grain. She than asks me if I put milk on his cereal Ummmm of course I do Oh she said I'll have to go and buy some then cos I used the last of it in my cup of tea. Did you put any money in his bag??? WTF Oh dear I really wonder sometimes. I just shake my head.

    OK I'm off to get some washing done and try and get some packing done too as we go away on Monday for a couple of weeks.
    Hope everyone has a much better day today.

  7. #7
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    Oct 2006
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    Happy 1st Birthday Sam. I hope you have a wonderful day.

    Spring xx

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    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
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    Happy Birthday Sam! I hope it's a wonderful day for all of you

    Spring, so glad you're still here, and made through the other night!!!!!

    Michelle, how are things my love???

    Kelly, what is going on woman????????? I demand to know . In fact, I'm going to text you this morning, so you can bring me up to date

    Better dash, off to the local shops for a few things, and then a bb babyshower this arvo

  9. #9
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    Aug 2006
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    Firstly, I wondered why no one was posting - I lost the new thread

    I'm so far behind but not going to do personals now.

    I'm so very sad to let you all know that Mako is back in hospital...her tiny babe has grown wings

    In the circumstances, she is doing OK. Not sure how long she is going to be in but is still there this afternoon and expecting to be there a while.

    Mako - You know how very sad and very sorry I am. You are the most beautiful friend and I am angry at the universe that this has happened again. So very angry right now...I have cried bucketloads for you and your tiny angel. I want you to know that I'm here for you whenever, whatever. We will help you get through this babe.

    Fly free tiny angel...and know that you are loved

    PS BW - She wanted me to make sure I said Happy Birthday to Sam from her. I can't believe she even remembered...