thread: Parenting after Miscarriage or Loss ~ February/March 2010

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    Jayne - Oh yeah, we have clicks I was trying to make an effort to talk to the mums, especially the ones I knew from preschool last year but was just getting nothing so just gave up. They didn't talk to me at preschool either so I don't know why I thought it would change. But preschool was a bit different cause we just dropped off and then left. At school we hang around for quite a while and most of the mums huddle in little groups and chat. I actually know one of the mums from way back when we had antenatal group for V. We had a few bbq's and things together before we sort of lost contact but even she didn't seem interested. She actually approached me last week but about 2 mins into the conversation I worked out why - she's started working as a party planner and wanted me to have a party that's the only reason she was talking to me. And I don't know her well enough to say no so guess who's having a linen party on 21st March (Sydney girls, it's a Sunday and you're all invited if you're interested in linen They actually have some really nice stuff for the kids, I must say)

    Anyway, this mum seems nice and our girls are in the same class so we'll see what comes of it. Would be nice to have someone to chat to.

    A thought just occurred to me - I went to check on D last night before I went to bed and he totally freaked me out because he was laying all weird in the cot, face down (he is still wrapped). So I tried to gently move him onto his back but he woke up so I fed him and he went back to sleep. That was about 10.30pm. He didn't wake until just before 5am....that's like seriously close to sleeping through huh??!! Wooooooot!!!

    Am home with just the boys today, DH working and my brother came to pick DD up so she could go to my niece's bday party. I'm baby sitting a friends 18mo this afternoon/tonight so I'll have 4 tonight

    Best be off, am sure you are all out having a life being the weekend, am going to go and do a blitz on my bedroom, clean sheets etc etc. Must admit, although I'd much rather have D in with us still, he is sleeping so much better in his own room and it is kind of nice for DH and I to have our own space again. I'm thinking of redecorating actually...
    Last edited by Willow; February 27th, 2010 at 11:00 AM.