thread: Parenting after Miscarriage or loss ~ July 2010

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    home sweet home.
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    thinking of you Mako

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Jan 2006
    Qingdao, China
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    HI Ladies,

    Just thought I would add that I"m disgustingly jealous of Kelly being in tropical waters.............

    MAKO _ How are you my darling? I have been thinking of you so much.

    MICHELLE _ How are you as well? Another special person occupying my thoughts!

    LEE _ How are you? Sounds like the massage course is keeping you busy, which is a good thing right now, an outlet.

    SPRING _ How's your lite n easy going? I haven't heard you talking bout it lately? Are you still doing it?

    BW _ Did you come to any decisions my love?

    FREYA _ I cant' believe you are sick again, I really, truly wish I could do something to help. It must be so frustrating. Your immune system must be completely buggered. I really hope you pick yourself up soon. xx

    Big, massive, squishy hugs to everybody!

    Well, I'm feeling more positive about life. Alan returned back to work last night, so today I'm on my own again. This time only for 25 days as he's back the day before Claudia's biopsy. Then it's possibly 3-4 trips until we move over there. There is SO much to do. It's insane, but it's keeping me motivated & positive & happy so I'm really praying it's a good move.

    Love Jayne x

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Sep 2006
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    and welcome KAM. Congrats on the recent arrival of your baby girl but I'm sorry about your little angel babies

    Hi to everyone..sorry for no personals but I have a cranky overtired little boy crying on my lap. I'll try and pop back in tomorrow after my appointment with my gyn/ob. I'm hoping to discuss other options with her tomorrow but won't be holding my breath.

  4. #4

    Oct 2005
    A Nestle Free Zone... What about YOU?
    5,374

    Hi everyone. I've been lying low. Feeling rather flat at the moment. It tis all a bit tough. I'm not going to bore you all with details.
    I am so in need of a holiday it's not funny. I just wish I could afford one.
    Never mind it will all come together in the end. I haven't read the thread just glanced to make sure you hadn't posted any pictures...but you are all angels.

    I will BB tomorrow with more of an update. Just know I love you all.

  5. #5
    BellyBelly Member

    Aug 2006
    Melbourne
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    Welcome KAM... you've found an amazing group of ladies in here. Hope everything is ok.

    Deb - Hugs.. hope you're doing ok.

    Mako - Good luck today at your appointment.. I really hope you get some more answers or direction on where to go from here. Thinking of you.

    Hope everyone else is doing ok. We're flat out here atm... those on FB will have seen that it looks like we're moving house!! I'm still in limbo land.. someone wants to take over our lease in TWO WEEKS!! Eeeekkkk!!! We've put an application in somewhere too, so hopefully it all works out.. it's just a matter of waiting now to hear from them! I've got another house to look at this avo too, so we'll see what happens. It's so stressful but I'd rather go through it now and not closer to the arrival of bub. So good news really. Best thing is that my Mum and brother have just booked to come over in two weeks time.. so they could very well be here to help us move.. which would be soooo amazing (for us... not them.. LOL). So I'm desperately trying to get hold of boxes and newspaper so I can start packing!!! Also trying to sort out kindy for Luke as we were accepted in somewhere but now that we're moving... it's going to be too far to travel, so I've started the calls to see if we can get in somewhere closer... sooo frustrating!!! There's even a Kindy a couple of doors up from the potential new house.. which would be incredible... but apparently there's no chance of getting in there now... grrrrrrr.

    Anyway just thought I'd pop in and give an update.. not sure how much I'll be around in the next few week.. LOL.. although I'm sure I'll need the distraction!!! LOL.

    Kel xx

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jan 2006
    Qingdao, China
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    Hello KAM, I'm Jayne & welcome to our little group of wonderful, caring, inspirational, courageous, motivational & delightful ladies. I trust you will love it here just as much as I do. Congratulations on the arrival of your sweet lil baby & of course my heart goes out to you for what you have lost in the process

    KELLY _ We should have a pack-a-thon!! haahahah heehehe. I just had a rent appraisal on the house & sheesh, there are even fees in there for them to scratch their noses. I'm gobsmacked.

    BUN _ I haven't heard from you in agesssssssss, how are you?

    WILLOW _ I hope you read this woman, but just for you I am signing myself up for an iphone so I can FB you when I'm in Chiny-Boo. Hardship, I know, but so long as you know it's specially for you!

    MAKO _ How was your appt darl?

    MICHELLE _ Any developments on the daytrip/weekend trip darl? Not pushing you into anything (just peeing myself with possible excitement).

    LISA _ Ahem, you owe me woman!

    JANIE _ Loving your FB updates, Miss-I'm-So-In-Love-&-Getting-A-Truck-Load-Of-Sleep-Even-Though-I-have-2-wee-Little-Men

    DEB _ You will never bore us, tell us all you need to. Vent away, you know I do. hahaha

    LEE _ How's the Dyson? How is everything on the home-front? You can always come & hide at my place, minus The Smearer. lol

    BW _ News???

    AFM _ Well rent appraisal happened today, sold my car over the weekend, now the devastating job of starting to pack up, or figuring out where to possbily start. It's doing my head in. Miss Jess is at a school excursion to the zoo today, so I can't wait to hear how her day went when I pick her up today.

    Love Jayne

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    Registered User

    Dec 2005
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    Oh Michelle if I can convince Ryan I would offer myself up as your travelling companion! I'll make mention of it to him when he is in a good mood and see what he says. I could do with a little getaway. And to meet the rest of the girls

    Hi KAM, welcome to our thread. Im sorry for your losses but overjoyed youve been able to bring your little princess home. Its truly a special but sad moment when you achieve that

    Jayne, your a busy bumble bee arent you! You sound so positive about everything, its fabulous to see you like this!

    Thats all I have time for right now, Ry's home and I have to decide on dinner, BBL for more.............

  8. #8
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    Sep 2006
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    Hi Jayne we didn't end up going out last night as DH didn't get home from work in time but we did go out and buy some new timber venetians for our lounge room so we ended up ripping down the very old shabby verticals and putting the new ones up without Sage trying to help lol.
    As for his swimming lesson..he LOVED it and tbh so did I. He laughed and laughed the whole time and he did everything I asked him to do ie kick his legs,blow bubbles put his face in and attempted to do big arms lol oh and he did some diving attempts too..sooooo cute when its you're own kid and not someone elses itms
    He can't wait to go again next week and even had to call his Nan(MIL as she's on holidays) to tell her all about it hahaha.

    Deb sending you massive hun. I wish things were easier for you.

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Feb 2009
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    Hi Ladies. I know I only really posted the once but I still feel a bit out of place invading in here under the circumstances. But I just had to check with you ladies again. We passed that magic 1 year - where SIDS risk is virtually non-existent... so why am I still a paranoid freak? Am I still going to be living some quiet paranoid hell when she is 20 something and getting married? I still cant bring myself to take her for Vax and I am about ready to go do a conscientious objector form because I am starting to think I will never feel comfortable with doing it. I am starting to worry that I am not reacting normally. My sister is far more laid back with her baby of the same age and my SIDS niece was her baby!

    What do you think, do I need help? Or is this just more extreme but still normal behaviour?

  10. #10
    Registered User

    Jan 2006
    Sydney
    2,212

    BR - I have all three of my earth babies in bed with me. I still worry about finding them dead (not necessarily SIDS) and after DH dying in April I don't think that sensation is going to leave me any time soon I actually found my reality - it just wasn't the children.

    It is an issues if you think it is an issue OR if it is impacting on your ability to sleep or function