Maz he reminds me of DD1 in personality,when she was a little kid she was almost like my caregiver IYKWIM? SHe held me when i cried when my XH walked out, she comforted me when i should have been there for her. She was 2 1/2 but she always worried about me. Sometimes I feel like I really screwed up her life but do you know what? She is 18 now and whilst she does have her moments she is a wonderful person who I am so proud of, she has survived a lot and is going to be an aweosme nurse in a few years because she has compassion and love and she has learnt so much about life and i know your little man will be just as awesome when he is an adult.