Antheia, I have just read through all the posts....You poor thing dealing with that and being pregnant! I'm so glad you have worked out the reason and have things in place to make it easier for you all!
Although I am sorry you had to go through that, I am glad you started the thread! DS is being so difficult lately and some of the replies may be useful for us. I'm definitely not pregnant so thats not the cause of his issues but could be diet related. We also started a rewards chart but although he loved getting the stickers and putting it up, I think he is too young to understand why he's getting the stickers...anyway won't hijack your thread just wanted to say thanks for starting the thread and glad things are looking up for you!
Well it may not be all about the baby now. She shows signs of ODD (Oppositional Defiant Disorder). So she's getting reviewed on this and other such things.
Overall i feel like i have let her down somehow, like i caused this. This is not how i imagined life would be like..
T, huge big hugs hun. I have just sat here and read through all the posts and can see you crying out for help. It's sooooo bloody frustrating isn't it.
I wish I could offer you a magic solution, but I just don't have one. I wish that I could make it all better for you, and for I.
All of my kids are very over active - and that's being nice about it. I have been through so much crap with them from all different angles and sadly at all different age groups.
Your right ppl do tell you abou thte terrible 2's, but personally I think it's the 2's,3's,4's up to the damn teens, cos I am still dealing with it. Throw in a good dose of hormones and it's a bloody ****tail.
I am glad that you are seeing someone with DD and that you are receiving some help. Be sure that you are also referred to someone that can teach you ways to manage her behaviour better. It's one thing to have a "name" to your childs problem, that's all well and good, but to walk out and still not have any real help is another thing.
You know where I am hun if you ever want to chat or vent.
Oh and in NO WAY have you let her down huni. Please never think that. I know as their parents we feel totally responsible for everything that happens with them, but something like this you cannot take the blame for.
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