T, huge big hugs hun. I have just sat here and read through all the posts and can see you crying out for help. It's sooooo bloody frustrating isn't it.

I wish I could offer you a magic solution, but I just don't have one. I wish that I could make it all better for you, and for I.

All of my kids are very over active - and that's being nice about it. I have been through so much crap with them from all different angles and sadly at all different age groups.

Your right ppl do tell you abou thte terrible 2's, but personally I think it's the 2's,3's,4's up to the damn teens, cos I am still dealing with it. Throw in a good dose of hormones and it's a bloody ****tail.

I am glad that you are seeing someone with DD and that you are receiving some help. Be sure that you are also referred to someone that can teach you ways to manage her behaviour better. It's one thing to have a "name" to your childs problem, that's all well and good, but to walk out and still not have any real help is another thing.

You know where I am hun if you ever want to chat or vent.

Oh and in NO WAY have you let her down huni. Please never think that. I know as their parents we feel totally responsible for everything that happens with them, but something like this you cannot take the blame for.

More hugs for you