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  1. #1
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    i hope it calms down for you huni. huge hugs xox

  2. #2
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    And I thought my doorslamming arguments with DD#1 were bad O_o

    I think Rapunzel's parents had the right idea. Lock em in a tower during puberty and let them out when they're done. Just make sure they get regular haircuts or the boyfriend will still manage to sneak in at night.
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    Ah sweetie big hugs. Sometime all the swirling emotion just gets too much to handle.

    Here's what I would do. Find a time to sit down and look her in the eyes and tell her how much you love her. No matter what. Full stop, no qualifications. That's what matters more than anything else. xxx

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    I hope you got through the night ok hun, I am so sorry to hear that you have cuts and bruises as well, but can't show your DH

    Look after yourself hun, and I hope she sees a better way to communicate

    Take care xxoo

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    Oh hope everything is ok.

  6. #6
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    Thank you all for listening
    Things have calmed down, the worst of it blew over as fast as it blew up but still a lot of tension and anger in the air. I will have to find a way to get rid of it, it's really not pleasant.
    I think Rapunzel's parents had the right idea. Lock em in a tower during puberty and let them out when they're done. Just make sure they get regular haircuts or the boyfriend will still manage to sneak in at night.
    Lol...now there's an idea....

    Here's what I would do. Find a time to sit down and look her in the eyes and tell her how much you love her. No matter what. Full stop, no qualifications. That's what matters more than anything else. xxx
    Yup, definitely. I guess if we can't stop being angry I will just have to do it anyway. It IS important.

    Limeslice, thanks for sharing made me feel a bit more normal! I was waiting after & wondering if anyone would call the police

    Thanks again guys for the hugs, boy do I need it

  7. #7
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    Arghhhhh...it's neverending.

    I went & gave her a hug & she burst into tears & said 'sorry'

    Then yesterday we had another blow-up, this time over money....

    *sigh* 'this too shall pass'....it will, won't it? I keep thinking of those who have 'been there, done that' (LimeSlice )and it gives me hope