Thanks girls!

DD has been waking up heaps at night too, and wanting to sleep in 'mummy's bed'. I don't have a problem with this when she hops in and goes to sleep, but it takes an hour of wriggling, wanting to be patted, dictating where everyone has to sleep (generally her with most of the bed and me squished up against the side and mostly back in her bed after spending 2 hours wriggling when DH is home and we kick her out!). I know she's making sure I'm still around and that she's still important and I'm happy to have her in bed, but I wish she would sleep.

I know we'll all be ok, we have to be. This baby is coming whether DD wants it or not! Just hope, fingers crossed, that its smooth for her.

Thanks for asking about my VBAC JackRose, I've booked in with my Ob from DD and happy with that, but have booked a very experienced doula and am determined to get my VBAC! My ob is one of the good guys when it comes to vbac-ing and has a really good reputation for it. We have discussed it, and he is very play it by ear. Has only said that he wont induce as that 'adds layers of complexity to the situation'. I'm happy with that. With DD I saw him at 41+1 and he made absolutely no mention of induction if baby didn't come, he just said 'see you next week at normal appointment, if I don't see you before then' so I feel comfortable about him. And he certainly didn't push me into c/s, he gave me 4 more hours and my support team bailed on me...And he has made comments about the things that you can control are staying active in labour & what pain relief you choose (ie, not having epidural) to help yourself get a vbac so he seems pretty open to everything. I'm staying really fit too, figure that's got to be a plus, so doing everything I can do to get this vbac thing happening!

Better get back into the cleaning, otherwise I feel like DD is in purgatory for nothing! (not really, occ. care is lovely, and she generally loves it, but she just wasn't keen on being there today..)