Totally understand how you're feeling hun I'm like Heaven, in that my DD1 loves her little sister to bits and isn't jealous of her at all, but DD2 is very demanding which means that DD1 is left to entertain herself sometimes, which breaks my heart as she was so used to having me do everything with her - she isn't upset or anything and will happily play with her dolls, cars and teasets on her own, but i feel guilty as i can't spend as much time with her as i used to, so its more a mummy issue than an issue for my DD1!!