Oh man I remember that to well still and its so many years on.

I went out and bought a second hand corner modular lounge chair from the oppy, put a sheet over it and use to sit in it, not making eye contact with my little man and would read out loud (but not to loud) until he feel asleep. Just my presents would settle him and it did take a while in the first week but after a while it only took 10 mins for him to fall asleep. It also gave me some time away from DH who was getting ****ty with it all to and yes we fought just like you guys.

I also had a spare bed were I would crawl into bed with him and co sleep with him until he fell alseep if need be.

Men can be the biggest knobs. And trust me....although your DS is little now, he understand that mum is there for him and its a bond that many men just cant get over . I also learnt to throw things...yes throw the washign basket at DH, throw a tea towel at him and I let the inner biartch out to meet him

hon try and stay calm for your sanity