Maz - I have tried laying in bed with him and being all relaxed even pretended to go to sleep and it doesnt seem to work. he crawls all over the bed or couch or what ever all hypo. once we get our house sorted and actually have another spare room it will be great coz Zarius and i can just crash in there and then i can crawl into bed when dh is asleep hehehehe

Charlie - yes there should be a treslilian for naughty daddies lol. we are currently looking at like a marriage camp or something similar so we have that outside person to look into the relationship and teach us some new strategies.

Mr Squidipa - I have tried all those things and he still fights it really bad usually 8pm he starts to wind down. which leaves no time for me and dh to wind down enough and to have "our time" before i am too tired. I cant believe how exhausting it is to have Zarius stay up soo late